Whenever we talk about psychology, people think we are
crazy, but it really isn't. In relationships since it will depend on the
psychology of each person whether they will enjoy it or not.
Many doctors say that the better your sex life, the happier
you are, and the better you will feel. This is true, but it also depends on how
you handle your sexuality because if you have a monotonous and boring
relationship, you will not enjoy it and you will not be happy. Have you heard
the phrase "variety is the taste"? Well, to this we can apply it
since if you add new things to your relationship (such as going out to
different places, you will be happy and you will not get bored or get tired of
the relationship.
Many ask: The more sex I have, the happier I am?
I am sorry to say no, although the it is not the number of
times for days or weeks of sex that make you happy, but how creative or
creative you can be in each encounter, allowing both people to feel satisfied
with each other.
Do not try to recreate what you see in porn movies or
fantasies that others tell you because many times you will be disappointed.
Remember that pornographic films are performances, just like a soap opera or an
action movie, what happens there is prepared to be like that on camera, and 90%
of the public that sees it, cannot or does not have the possibility to recreate
the scene.
You adapt the sexual routine with your partner
Do not let others tell you how many times a week or day you
should have sex, because each couple is different.
If you have children, responsibilities, pending tasks and
stress, obviously you will not have time to have sex once a day, but maybe a
week or a month, but maybe that only encounter is enough because they live it
passionately trying new things and making that moment a completely different
occasion than before.
If something is not right with your partner and you don't
like it or you just don't like it, treat it, don't let it fall apart alone.
Many times we have some disagreement with our partner, but
out of grief, or simply not making them feel bad, we choose to shut up and wait
for things to resolve themselves when really that does not usually happen. If
we are a couple, there must be enough confidence to discuss as adults the
things we do not like or that we must improve to maintain harmony in the
relationship.
In most of the cases,
we look for options in other people, falling into infidelity and creating
greater discord, to the point of breaking the beautiful relationship that at
one time they had between them. In psychology, this may mean insecurity. When a
person who has a partner looks for other options while in a relationship, it
represents being a person who is not sure of himself, that any crisis brings
him down.
The answer is not in other people, you have the answer
yourself or yourself, who has the option to evaluate what is influencing the
relationship, which affects even the couple's good sexual health since you
already have the experience and you know your partner, his strengths and
weaknesses.
Are there partner therapies to help improve the relationship?
There are therapists for couples who can help, from a
different perspective, to improve and repair the problems that influence damaging
the relationship you may have. Through therapies that both should perform,
depending on the severity of the matter, the specialist will be able to explore
more and more in the couple's lifestyle to detect exactly what situation is
hurting, and saying how it can be repaired, something, as well as a vehicle
mechanic, the vehicle, being the relationship between the couple.
The therapy is not old, it is bad to think that because you
are X´s age you cannot or should not visit a therapist for couples. You can
visit them at any age, the important thing is to be willing to find a solution
to improve the relationship.
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